Here’s my take (most likely will be an unpopular one) on the whole reffing thing. Over my life I was part of or involved with many sport teams in different countries, different sport, different levels. From National Junior Volleyball Team in Ukraine as a player, to division 2 Ukrainian Soccer League team as sports journalist, to coaching various junior club teams in basketball and volleyball in Canada. During all these times I observed not only our team but also athletes and coaches on other teams. Participated in special training camp led by legendary Soviet Volleyball coach Viacheslav Platonov. Had close friends on Dynamo Kyiv team from 2 periods of their highest achievements in Europe (1986 European Cup of Cup Winners and 1999 CL semi final) who learned from another legend Valeriy Lobanovsky. Every one of these sports has one thing in common - element of subjective refereeing. There was always one common trend that I always saw - majority of consistent winners in all these sports never complained about refereeing, not even internally in locker room conversations. Most of the consistent losers blame refs/pitch/fans/weather conditions on their losses. It’s all about the mindset of the winner - always look at yourself as the cause of your own misfortune and analyze how not to get into a situation where you are exposing yourself to a questionable decision by others.
Of course, during the heat of the moment in the middle of the game, anyone reacts to bad calls by a ref. It’s how you deal with that after the game, when you analyze your own performance - that’s what differentiates losers from winners.
I just hope that we as fans try to get into similar mindset. There were plenty self-inflicted harm that Canucks caused to themselves in the last 15 minutes of the 3rd period yesterday. We could have and should have won the game yesterday even with all the stupidity from the Special K and Co.